Can you believe it’s finally here? A wedding day designed just for these lovebirds, filled with complicated and important emotions--each and every one of them meaningful to the truth of their story. I’m so excited to celebrate and cherish the legacy of life and love surrounding this lovely pair of humans.

Did you know that you are an important part of this story? You are uniquely written into various chapters of their lives. You are chosen by the couple to be here and present on this magical, wonderful day. I am so glad you are here to celebrate with us. Please do not erase yourself from this chapter.

You do not need to jump out of the way every time I point my camera towards the scene. Especially if you are part of the events happening in that moment. Forget about me and my camera. Be present. Participate in the day. Let me worry about the composition of the scene in my camera.

You do not need to pose or be “Insta-worthy” every time you notice the camera. It’s going to happen multiple times when you notice me hanging around. Feel free to smile and wave, and then turn your attention back to whatever else is going on. You will not ruin the photos by being yourself. Today’s a great day to let go of perfection and embrace the beauty found in the messy chaos of the ordinary.

You are welcomed and invited to ask me for extra photos, especially at the reception. I want to say yes as much as possible to my couple and their families. I like taking photos; it’s why I’m here! Sometimes I might suggest waiting until the reception because we are on a tighter timeline, but I still 100% want to take your pictures--every one of them.

My role on a wedding day is to photograph with intentionality. My job is to tell the truth. My job is to create beautiful, meaningful images to remind you all of this day for many years to come.

Your role is to stay present for what’s happening before your eyes. Your job is to laugh and cry, hug everyone, rest your head on your partner’s shoulder, cut loose on the dance floor, eat too much cake, and proudly look on as you watch one of the best parts of your love story marry the love of their life.

And, if you’re ever not sure what to do with your hands? I recommend holding on to the ones you love--yes even during “formal portraits.”  

I love the way you love your people. Thanks for trusting me to photograph you, the happy couple, and all the people who came to celebrate. I can’t wait to share these images with you all, soon.